Who is sitting in their bath in a cocktail dress?! Please!
I'm a tutor working for a big
company providing after-school booster sessions. In many respects,
our sessions are completely gender neutral. Our role is to encourage
all children, regardless of gender, to do their best and pursue their
goals. At the end of their sessions, kids are allowed some downtime
to play games or browse the internet. By far the most popular
activity, despite my infinite but seemingly isolated enthusiasm for Pictionary, is the online entertainment platform, Friv.
Now, Friv is an apparently innocuous
and slightly naff collection of games like Supercow (collect super
milk and superfluous coins!). Yet one day, as I was sitting with a
girl, she opened up a "girls'" game.
To be fair, Friv doesn't gender
segregate its games, at least on its homepage, which is a start. But
the unmistakable shades of pink and lavender and the ubiquitous
presence of doe-eyed kittens left the kids in no doubt as to which
games they were supposed to
be playing. They ranged from the relatively harmless interior
decorating and the frankly bizarre
"kitten-in-a-hot-air-balloon-delivering-groceries" vibe, to
the predictably irritating "feed-the-baby-and-cook-the-dinner"
variety.
Unsurprisingly the choice of makeover
games was alarmingly vast; "Bratz makeover" - makeover
abnormally large-headed women to resemble Lindsey Lohan circa 2001;
"Scary Lily makeover" - you're presented with a bald woman
in pants and have to dress her in Mean Girls-style halloween costumes
to music from the Crystal Maze; "Rapunzel Makeover" - Help!
Rapunzel is hideously ugly! Help slay her whiteheads!; "Pinup
facial beauty" - as creepy as it sounds given it's aimed at
kids: a sexy woman in a little pink frilly number stands seductively
while you ply her face with every product in the known universe. And
you really feel they're scraping the barrel by the time it comes
to "TV Anchor Makeover".
Screengrab from "Pinup Facial Beauty"
So far so blah. However, there were a
few games that really got my hackles up.
Take, for instance, "Back to School
Makeover". Now, as an educational establishment, we tend to
stress full stops and capital letters over eyeshadow and hoop
earrings as tools for back-to-school preparation. But not in our
downtime area.
In the land of Friv, the crucial back-to-school steps are illustrated by showing how utterly horrifying and gruesome it is to have acne, and how easy it is to get rid of it if only you support the multi-billion pound beauty product industry. Interestingly, bacne is not addressed.
Now, as a long term sufferer of acne I wanted to warn the kids playing that this was a wholly ignorant portrayal of the process of de-spotting oneself. First off, in the land of Friv, you have to use something that resembles a cross between a magic wand and an instrument of torture to remove the girl's icky puss-filled whiteheads. Then, after applying a scrub - with a brush?! - her spots have miraculously disappeared. (Who uses a brush to apply facial scrub, am I missing something? Maybe this is why I had acne...). I don't tell the kids playing the game that this is a load of old bull, however, as I'm too busy self-consciously patting my face and worrying about how I haven't plucked my eyebrows since before Christmas. If that's what these games do to a relatively confident adult, it can't be doing much for the self-esteem of the teenagers milling around the room.
Anyway, once you've wasted what seems to be several hours of this cartoon-girl's life slapping chemicals on her face the game ZOOMs in, in order to convey the full horror of unkempt facial hair which you must pluck in order to make her socially acceptable enough for the classroom.
Next up comes the "Freshner". For several horrifying moments I thought we were about to enter the territory of 'vaginal freshening' products but thankfully no, this was just another chemical to pile onto the poor girl's face, albeit this time with a disembodied hand...
Still, at least this cartoon-teen got to use semi-recognisable products. Poor spotty Rapunzel's white heads get removed with what seems to be a syringe and a ribbon...
Meanwhile, it's time to makeover your impossibly doe-eyed cream-slathered beauty in time for double maths. Apparently it's now necessary to change her eye
hair colour
give her a silly Shakespearian hat, all in the name of academic preparation.
And voila! At this rate, you'll only have to get up at 4am to make all the necessary preparations for school!
OK, I admit it, when I was a kid I'd probably have gone in for the makeover stuff too. Although admittedly for me it involved crimping my friends' hair and customising my B*Witched inspired dungarees. Plus, it was usually in the spirit of fun, as embellishments, rather than attempts to remove imperfections. And frankly, having suffered with stubborn acne for years, I find the implication that I should have just washed my face and poked myself with a metal stick a bit insulting. Maybe you think I'm taking this too seriously, they are just games after all.
It's true, some of the games aimed at girls are just completely bizarre. "Cupid Forever" manages to blend Heston Blumenthal-style cooking with babies, romance, and fatal injury. Concoct a potion from perfume, cake, chilli, and burgers, and a flying woman will shoot a man in a park with an arrow, only for him either a) to turn into a baby and get carried away by a passing old woman, b) fart the woman next to him into oblivion, or c) get shat on by a pigeon. Not joking.
Perhaps it is all fun and games after all. But here's the thing - makeover games are clearly not just there for fun. There are obvious instructional and shaming overtones to these games which in my opinion make them quite insidious, and reflect some of the horrible expectations our society has of its young women.
But, if you need further convincing of the impossible standards these games are setting, here's a couple of screengrabs from some other makeover games:
Skinny enough for you? Incidentally, that last picture comes from a game called "Silky Smooth Legs" which is basically a step-by-step guide on how to shave your horrible shameful hairy legs whilst in the bath. Curiously, girls are never warned of the thrush risk involved with using multiple scented products near the vaginal canal. Odd, that.
But we're not done yet. The award for WORST GAME TO GIVE A YOUNG GIRL EVER goes to "Dream Date Dress-up"!
It goes like this:
A girl, let's call her Chloe, is clearly infatuated with some Bieber-haired twit. Ergo, she has to impress on their date.
Does Chloe instantly rush to the newsround website in order to brush up on current affairs and dazzle Bieber-tron with her wit? Does she have a frank and honest discussion with her parents about safe sex? Of course not, silly! Obviously she enters Bieber-tron's wank bank with her Kodak pervert lens and snaps a photo of his ideal woman in a swimming costume! Like, duh.
Armed with this knowledge, the player then has to 'win' the game by totally altering Chloe's appearance in order to live up to Bieber-tron's sleazy little fantasy. Because it's totally healthy to teach girls that in order to make the guys they fancy like them back, they just have to cut and dye their hair and don an itsy-bitsy teeny-weeny yellow polka-dot bikini, in order to make themselves into someone else's fantasy. Not unhealthy in the least.
I had to play this godawful game for screengrabs with which to feed your dismay. I decided to dress Chloe in an Abba-chic-meets-Peggy-Patch look. Bieber-tron was not impressed, despite the fact that he'd not even bothered to put a shirt on. Bit rich. Poor Chloe was in tears because she hadn't reached the "target accuracy to go on the next date." I assume her misery was only increased by the fact that the makers of "Dream Date Makeover" had incorporated a print-out function, thus immortalising her shame forever.
Joking aside, what do we expect when we sanction
games that promote impossible standards of beauty and coach girls to
improve their looks, especially in an environment where we're supposed to be nurturing girls' brains rather than their bodies? The kids I work with are aged four to fourteen, and are a particularly high risk category for eating disorders and body dysmorphia. Yet we're implicitly telling them that maintaining an impossibly thin and unblemished figure is a fun, cool, and above all legitimate way to be spending their time.
I work with
young girls, and the ways in which they pick up the negative messages
we send them about their future place in the world are highly
upsetting. To quote one ten year old, a woman's role in a
relationship is to be "three things: hot, hot, and hot."
She's by no means the exception, there was noisy agreement from the
majority of the class, male and female alike.
To be fair, there are some almost positive
portrayals of women on Friv, but you have to look quite hard. Despite
the fact that Baby Clinic is aimed at girls because, you know, their
role in life is to care for infants, at least there's a woman doctor
and they're doing something other than plucking eyebrows. In fact,
they're making spooky-looking babies cry by administering polio
vaccines. Then there's Epic Battle Fantasy. Praise the Lord! A game
with a female action hero that battles mythical creatures (albeit
whilst sporting knockers of gigantic proportion). But all in all, the
choice for girls is pretty depressing. And what's more
depressing, is the fact that this gaming site is sanctioned by countless
education centres across the UK.
LK
